It
just may be that no drug
is more effective than a
good, meaningful chat. A
British study has
demonstrated the healing
power of friendship.
A
group of chronically
depressed women living in
London were randomly
assigned to receive a
volunteer "befriender"
or were placed on a
waiting list for one. The
befrienders were
instructed to be
confidants to the
depressed women, meeting
them regularly for chats
over coffee or outings.
Tirril
Harris, of Guy's, King's
and St. Thomas' schools of
medicine in London reports
that among the women who
saw their volunteer
friends regularly
throughout the year, 72
percent experienced a
remission in depression
compared with just 45
percent in the control
group. That's about the
same success rate as
antidepressants or
cognitive therapy, says
Harris.
The
women who benefited most
from the friendship
prescription typically
experienced some kind of
"fresh start":
they reconnected or made
amends with a person who
was estranged from them,
or left an unpleasant job
for another that seemed
more promising.
In
one case, Janet, a
depressed woman who took
part in the study, had
been working overtime for
no extra pay. Her
befriender pointed out
that this was unfair and
suggested she ask for
compensation. Janet
approached her boss, who
was "amenable and
apologetic," Harris
recalls. "These types
of experiences—an
acknowledgment of
respect—made the
formerly depressed women
feel differently about
themselves and about the
world."